The Money Spa
Money rules everything around us.
The Money Spa not only helps you surrender to this reality of life, but guides you to elegantly work with it.
And once you take the time to understand your relationship to money, you’ll find that you have the skills you need to move from your current & likely old-fashioned way of earning, saving & spending money.
The Money Spa helps you forge a path to the way of living you dream of - a way of living where the money simply finds you.
“Your finale e-mail for the money spa is the bomb 💣🤌🏻 ... I did not expect it but it’s amazing"
“Your finale e-mail for the money spa is the bomb 💣🤌🏻 ... I did not expect it but it’s amazing"
"I always feel good after our sessions, but today felt ✨powerful! ✨"
"I always feel good after our sessions, but today felt ✨powerful! ✨"
"I am so connected to my goals. Thank you so much for making it so clear and possible 🔥"
"I am so connected to my goals. Thank you so much for making it so clear and possible 🔥"
THE ANTIDOTE TO CAPITALISM
There is not a day, week nor month that passes by where we can't think about money.
Even if you have millions in the bank, money will continue to rule everything around you - something I know about oh too well.
After many years of avoidance, I realized the only way to liberate myself from this capitalist world we live in was to change my relationship to money.
Instead of trying to avoid thinking about money, I now use and accumulate money from a place of higher principles. I have a decision making framework for purchasing even the smallest of items, how to price my time, how to go about "earning" money (hint: I don't actually ever choose to earn it!).
In short, I let the money find me. This is what is rejuvenating and relaxing. It's the pinnacle of The Money Spa's journey. Seven weeks in The Spa will take you to this place of being able to stop searching for money, and instead get distracted by life... letting money find you in the process.
A RE-INVIGORATING EXPLORATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO MONEY AWAITS YOU.
The Money Spa is multi-part experience to help you reset & rejuvenate your work & life trajectory, through focusing on your relationship to money.
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Because money is an individual trajectory - there are four 1:1 coaching sessions that anchor us. Below are the themes we cover…
~Connecting to how far you've come, and how far you want to go~
I'll identify your subconscious beliefs as you tell me your money story, and then together we'll apply these to how it shows up in your life. You’ll leave with a lifelong money energetic statement.
~Creating your money direction
We'll define the right "money" goal for you (because a savings number is oh so 2002) and then spend time connecting to what getting to that goal unlocks.
~Peeking behind the curtain and re-organizing your life
We’ll review a homework assignment of putting together a 3 month retrospective financial budget (that I give you directions to do ahead of time) that allows us to reflect on what "enough" would really be spending wise for you specifically.. and then dream about how that could take pressure off of you, income wise.
~Let's get selfish... but stay humble
We’ll uncover what you need (rather than want) in life right now so we can explore how to distract yourself while you wait for this need to arrive and of course move through an exercise on doing something you love, but for a fraction of the income you earn today.
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But I of course will be sharing my personal story to inspire you as you re-shape your relationship to money. The three group moments will be in the weeks in between 1:1 coaching, and will cover the themes below…
~A focus beyond money
We’ll spend time acknowledging accumulating money is not the only goal in life - it's also important to maintain your relationships, health & more. We’ll also explore societal beliefs that do not support money consciousness (i.e. "time is money"), allowing us to pull at the string that our money woes are really just the exposed tip of an underlying need.
~My 20/20 money hindsight
I’ll share the story on how I now think I was able to make my first million alongside an open share of my money energetics around spending & saving where I expose my (slightly insane) spreadsheet frameworks for how I make bigger money life decisions.
~Creating permission to let your money simply appear (rather than work for it)
I share how approaching life from a place of need, rather than want, leads to money liberation. And how the trick to finding what you're looking for is getting distracted… because if it's about money, it's not about you.
come on in
come on in
The Money Spa re-opens this spring!
Coaching sessions will be scheduled at times convenient for both of us (a link to book these 4 sessions would be provided after the welcome call)
Group sessions will be held on the weeks in-between 1:1 coaching sessions at a Europe & America friendly time (and will be recorded if you cannot attend live)
Why does The Money Spa exist?
Well, I’m glad you asked! One day, I - Kelly - woke up and realized I had a lot of experience with money. But not just the typical earning, saving, spending & investing. But experience in working on my relationship to money.
While there were a lot of “money mindset” programs… I realized there wasn’t a place to give your relationship to money some much needed R&R. And now that I say that… don't we all need it! And deserve it. The Spa is not here to teach you how to save or invest. It’s instead guiding you to think differently, so you stop letting money rule everything around you.
The Spa is for those want a medium term plan to stop literally "working in exchange for money". Instead, you want to have fun - and you just happen to get paid as a byproduct of said fun.
And because this is The Money Spa, it is in fact rejuvenating. Money is heavy stuff, so I get you might not believe me. So I will ask you to imagine that you have a special invite for the most luxurious spa in town. The only catch is that this spa is in the middle of a very trashy casino. You have to walk through the clink-clink-clink of the slot machines, the horrific bright fluorescent lights and the over oxygenated stale air to get to this luxurious spa. What do you focus on - the spa that awaits you or the slot machines? I bet you hurry your cute booty up to the spa! And once there you put your headphones in, close your eyes, and breathe your way into the warm water. You allow yourself to tune out the noise, lights & insanity of the casino world just outside and go inwards for a moment.When you come back out of the bath, the world doesn’t feel quite as jarring. You saunter out of the trashy casino chill as a kitten, with a coy smile on your face … knowing you have managed to indulge in a little secret Spa time.
This is what The Money Spa does. It rejuvenates you so you can saunter through our incessantly capitalist world. Because capitalism really does rule everything around us. The Money Spa is the antidote to capitalism. It creates the skills to navigate the financial conversations happening inside your head and with the people around you with ease. You become The Spa. The still, safe space inside of our crazy, money, profit obsessed world 💫
Ok, but why listen to Kelly?
Great question. Well, after 30 odd years of having money rule everything around me, I finally realized it was just the tip of the iceberg.
To me, money represents something I can control. A variable in my life that I can completely dictate. I choose what kind of jobs I take. What kind of expenses I have. How to invest my savings. My goal was always to "not have to think about money".
Not too long ago, I realized that this was circular, and in some ways impossible. I could lose my job at any moment. The cost of living could skyrocket in the blink of an eye. The stock market could crash and take years to recover.
There is not a day, week nor month that passes by where I can't think about money (even though I enough savings in the bank to be able to afford everything I need, and then some). I decided to change my relationship to money after quite a few years of on and off coaching on the subject (I was focusing on all my other problem areas, and then finally realized money was the problem 🤦🏽).
I discovered that I needed to go from a mantra of “I don’t want to have to think about money” to something that would liberate me from this capitalist world we (unfortunately) live in. After a lot of pondering, experimenting & giving of money (the details of which I save for The Spa itself) ... I arrived at my new mantra. It's not flashy, but it's true. All I say to myself, is "be intentional with my money".
I use and accumulate money from a place of higher principles. I have a decision making framework for purchasing even the smallest of items. I have a decision making framework for how to price my time. I have a decision making framework for how I even go about "earning" money (hint: I don't actually ever choose to earn it!).
Now, I let the money find me. This is what is rejuvenating and relaxing. It's the pinnacle of The Money Spa's journey. seven weeks in The Spa will take you to this place of being able to stop searching for money, and instead get distracted by life... letting money find you in the process.
I hope to see you inside 🧖🏽
Get a sneak peek
If you need a preview of what's inside, in this video I share the (punchlines of) 4 lessons I have learned about how to make my money find me — and 1 unfortunate lesson I’ve learned where I let some money slip away.